Let’s be honest, if the first date idea is just “let’s go and eat”, issa red flag . No hate to restaurants, but sometimes we want fun, vibes, and a little bit of “he actually put in effort” energy. So if you’re trying to plan a first date in Lagos that’s unique, cute, and still IG-worthy? I got you.

Here are 10 non-restaurant places in Lagos to go on a first date and actually vibe. Warning: You just might fall in love 

1. Paint and Sip

This is date night, but make it creative. You get to paint, sip wine, laugh at how bad (or good) your partner’s painting is — and the best part? You get to take your art home (hello memory!).

Tip: Choose evening sessions for that romantic dim lighting and soft music. Bonus points if he lets you paint his canvas 

2. Lufasi Nature Park – Lekki

You want peace and nature? Lufasi is your plug. You’ll walk through quiet forest trails, sit by the lake, maybe have a picnic… It’s giving cottagecore in Lagos, and we love that.

Tip: Wear comfy clothes and cute sneakers. And pack small chops or cold drinks if you want to impress!

3. Upbeat Recreation Centre – Lekki

Forget Netflix and chill — how about bouncing on trampolines and acting like kids again? If your date makes you laugh till your cheeks hurt on the first try, you’re halfway there.

Tip: Book a weekday slot if you want less crowd and more one-on-one time. Loser buys Coldstone after 

4. Alexis Galleries

Art + conversation = perfect soft first date. You’ll get to stroll around, interpret art together (or pretend to), and actually talk. Way better than staring at jollof in silence.

Tip: Don’t go too serious. Say funny stuff about the paintings. It’ll lighten the mood!

5. Terra Kulture

Plays in Lagos are SO underrated for dates. You get dressed up, laugh at funny scenes, cry small (if it’s emotional), and talk about it after. Perfect for first-date convos!

Tip: Check what’s showing ahead — pick something romantic or hilarious to set the tone.

6. Omu Resort

Let’s get a little adventurous! If they’re scared of water, you’ll know early. If they’re brave, double win. Plus, it’s so cute to paddle side by side and scream together

Tip: Go early in the morning before the sun starts misbehaving. And yes, bring sunscreen — protect the melanin!

7. Genesis Cinema – Lekki

Yes boo, Lagos has drive-in cinemas now! You get to cuddle in the car (if you know the person well o), eat popcorn, and watch a movie under the stars.

Tip: Pick a rom-com for the mood. And carry wipes because small chops grease is real.

8. Lekki Arts & Crafts Market

This one’s for the artsy and aesthetic lovers. Walking through the market, touching beads, looking at handmade bags, and vibing with the local sellers — yes, it’s romantic in a fun, random way.

Tip: Buy each other something small. Like matching bracelets or rings. Trust me, it’s cute.

9. Escape Room – Lekki

Imagine being locked in a room together and trying to solve clues to get out. Teamwork + suspense = instant bond (or chaos ). Either way, it’s memorable!

Tip: It’s better if you both have a lil’ competitive streak. But even if you lose, you’ll laugh about it for days.

Bonus Tips

  • Don’t over-plan — let the date flow naturally.
  • Dress for the vibe (comfy but fine).
  • Avoid places with too much people — it’s a first date, not a concert.
  • Take one or two cute pics — but don’t turn it into a full shoot

Conclusion


So, next time someone says “let’s link,” hit them with “cool, but no restaurant pls”. You deserve effort and fun! 

Want a version for second dates or budget-friendly date ideas in Lagos? Just say the word, I got you!